We’ve all heard that the eyes are the gateway to the soul. Whatever you call it, looking directly into another person’s eyes can be remarkably intimate.
A glance can communicate curiosity, affection, challenge, distrust or desire before a word is spoken. Maybe that’s why we notice when someone won’t meet our eyes—and why sustained eye contact can feel almost physical.
Between two men, that look carries its own history. In cruising spaces especially, a glance could ask a question, receive an answer and establish mutual attraction in seconds. Look. Look away. Look again. Message received.
Physique photographers understood the power of that exchange. Two nude men could be arranged in the most statuesque, classical pose imaginable, but turn their eyes toward one another and something changes.
Have them hold hands while doing it and the classical alibi starts getting pretty thin.
Of course, men look at one another for countless reasons. Friendship, competition, admiration and brotherly affection all live here too. That ambiguity offered photographers the same useful cover we’ve seen again and again—the ritual of innocence remained intact.
But sometimes you don’t need a hand, an embrace or anything else. Sometimes the connection is already there in the space between two sets of eyes.
The true intention, as always, is in the eye of the beholder.
Please leave thoughts, questions, additions or corrections in the comments. Thank you, bns






nice !!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Nice to see you here. bns
DeleteIt's interesting when a guy is looking at your bulge then makes eye contact with you to see if you were looking at him while he was looking at your bulge. Especially when it's relative, neighbor, or work associate.
ReplyDeleteRobert Rex is paired with his brother Bill Rex in a Pat Milo photo, and there is a family resemblance. Also, the Kovert of Hollywood pair has always puzzled me because of contradiction of the stilted and awkward way they touch with that gaze into each others' eyes. Talk about mixed messages!
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